Everyone has a different relationship with their parents. Some parents are strict, some are super chill and most are somewhere in the middle. Not Anthony Anderson’s mother though. She’s way outside the normal spectrum, at least based on the story he told on Conan last night.

The star of Blackish didn’t beat around the bush much when Conan O’Brien brought the story up, but he also didn’t exactly look excited about telling it. The story is so wild it almost looks like clickbait, but it really happened.

Anderson’s mom apparently put on porn videos one day (part of her “extensive collection”) and explained how eat pussy to an entire group of Anderson’s friends, including some of their girlfriends. Her motivation for such an explicit and uncomfortable act? The fact that her husband (Anthony Anderson’s father), “didn’t know how to eat pussy,” according to Anderson. She also said, “it is my duty as a woman to teach you to do this properly.” What a mom.

We’re all for being open about sex, and Anderson doesn’t seem to regret the encounter, saying “it turned out to be great knowledge.” The comedian even told a few girls where he learned later, and would call up his mom after the girl understandably didn’t believe him. However, we don’t recommend asking your parents for a tutorial when you’re home from college.